What crap! You don't have to be a perfect man to be a man, and you certainly don't have to be the things mentioned to be a submissive male..........which is where I think the taunt is directed. Anyone who knows me would never say I was a weak follower who lacked strength and confidence. And yet.....I am a submissive male to my Rosa (and select others).
And what's the thing about being a friend and a pleaser? These are bad things? A woman doesn't want her man ........even if he's a more dominant-style male.......to be her friend and try to please her and the people he cares about? Even the submissive women I know would not want a man like that!
Being a 'man' is literally as simple as having the right plumbing dangling from between one's legs. Yet I do understand there are ideals about manhood that transcend genitalia. However, to me this criteria, while it may encompass many things, is primarily about one waning couplet of traits among mankind: HONOR & INTEGRITY.
Do what's right even when it's difficult, even as those around you abandon you. Stick to your word. Help rather than harm. Be truthful when it is most difficult to stand your ground. Measure your success by how easily you can look at yourself in the mirror rather than by how expensive the mirror is or how handsome the reflection is in it.
Do these things and whether you enjoying putting a willing lady over your rugged lap, sharing life equally, or happily burying your face in your lady's butt after she's spanked you................you will STILL be a man.
I don't know who I feel worse for, the person who wrote this shit? the poor model who was probably just posing for some glamour ad, never suspecting some idiot would stick these asinine words in her mouth and have her look like a myopic bitch? or the person who sees it and thinks it's hot?
|Two of the greatest male heroes in film: Atticus Finch played by Gregory Peck......|
|....and Will Kane played by Gary Cooper. Neither of whom achieved their heroic status as "men" through financial success, meanness, or any other silly notion of masculinity.|