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Monday, February 6, 2017

Maternal Spankings

Over at Dan's blog this week, there is a discussion over the part that "nurturing" plays alongside "penance" within a DD relationship. One of the interesting side issues is the hot or cold reaction people have when using maternal imagery to reference this type of disciplinary dichotomy. In my comment to Dan, I mentioned that the camps seem divided on this with one side being totally turned-off by any references to 'mothers/mothering' while the other camp sees the imagery as merely descriptive and evocative of the situation.

Having been putting up daily images of Cupid being spanked by his mother, Venus, the mother/son issue has been fresh in my head all week. Adding the timing of Dan's discussion to this seems oddly coincidental. Anyway, I decided to revisit some of my stories that have a strong maternal theme to them and in doing so I figured that along with my "Cupid-of-the-Day" I'd link a "Mother/son Story" as well. So here they are for the start of this week:

"Still a Mom"  (click to read)---a story in which an adult son in his 40's, asks his mother for a spanking. In many ways this story is a fictional handling of some of my own most private thoughts regarding my own mother on whom "Loretta" is solidly based. Even many of the little details running throughout the story are based on things I recall from my own childhood. Essentially, this piece was almost a way to process thoughts that would otherwise have remained buried.

And taking a break from two dimensional depictions, here we have a lovely bronze of Cupid and Venus: 

Yet again, Venus seems to be enjoying.....or at least bemused by her disciplinary duties. Cupid here seems less pleased.

51 comments:

  1. do you know where you got that story from???

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    1. Yes I do. Why do you ask?

      Also, PLEASE abide by my wishes for comments. (listed in orange type just above the posts.)

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    2. You really are in a feisty mood this week, aren't you? :-)

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    3. The freshest, clearest, trout-laden streams often have the strongest current. ;-)

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  2. sorry, i liked the story and would love to read more from the author
    do you know where you got that story from??? I am dan a 61 year old sub male occasionally disciplined by my wife
    dan lljotk

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    1. Thanks for the interest, dan, and welcome. This blog is a companion blog for my website (of the same name) which is linked towards the top right of this page. There you will find a fairly large collection of artwork, cartoons, and stories...........all done by little old me.......KDPierre. ;-)

      Please take a long look and enjoy!

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  3. As someone who was rarely if ever spanked as a child, the adult me admits and agrees that a spanking can have a much-needed "settling effect" I have even used those words when requesting a spanking. I want to cry real tears, and be sobbing uncontrollably. When it's over, I feel better, but it's been a long time sine I requested one.

    Stitch would spank me, but then then suddenly felt bad for 'hurting' me when I'd start to cry, and I knew that a good cry was exactly what I needed.

    Now I will sometimes spank Stitch and he will kick and scream like an errant child. It makes me laugh, because he thinks I'll stop.

    Yep, I'm baaack!

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    1. I totally get what you're saying. Fortunately for me, more often than not, Rosa is willing and capable of bringing me to the point I sometimes need. Tears however remain elusive for me.

      Your line about Stitch made me snicker. ;-)

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    2. He really doesn't "get" that aspect of my relationship with Shilo. Stitch is the sweetest man I've ever known, but I really feel he deserves those spankings when I give him one.

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    3. Well that statement is indicative of the reality of the DD aspect at work. Everyone misbehaves, even sweet guys. (hell just look at me! I'm so freakin' sweet I just drip honey out of my ass.........and I still get spanked) ;-)

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    4. I don't know. I thought it was..................

      sweet. ;-

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  4. Cupid does have a perturbed look on his face, doesn't he?

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    1. Yeah, he doesn't seem to be enjoying this game.

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  5. My primary interest in the maternal imagery is the difference in a "having a choice" in getting a spanking, as one does as an adult, or "Having NO CHOICE" as the situation one would be in, when being told one is forthcoming from a maternal figure.
    I would prefer "no choice" myself, but my self will won't allow me to just automatically give in.

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    1. The "no choice" issue is a very complicated one that resonates with many DD-lifestyle people.

      And you are right......no matter what paper you signed, or agreement you made, or system you follow............as an adult you ALWAYS have a choice. Unless you are shackled as someone's prisoner, the 'no-choice' punishment of childhood is achieved only through illusion.

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    2. Merry took me up on my request for her to take charge, this morning. And, no matter what she was putting me through, which was a tiny slice of Hell, I KNEW I could have called it off, called it quits, stopped it, whenever. Choice is always there. I had to make the choice to NOT stop it.

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    3. Besides, Shilo know that I end things when I want, and I always check in on him. Seeing him shudder during the ordeal was a delight to behold.

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    4. This sounds like a perfectly cooperative undertaking. That clear understanding of role, need, and desire infuses your situation with admirable reality.

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    5. This very much encapsulates my "spanking ethos". The "no-choice" option from a parent (preferably female) or other authority figure is critical as, as an adult, I would never submit to such a thing. Being unable to refuse is part of the fantasy...

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    6. You aren't alone on that, smuccatelli. That seems to be a major concept for many. It's a tricky thing though. Trickier still for the disciplinarian.

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    7. How so, I wonder? Have you ever been in the disciplinarian position?

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    8. I've done the "Top thing" MANY times in the past. In two past relationships I was "exclusively" the one in charge. (I'm actually not bad at it.

      My point about the trickiness is something well explained in several posts on Dan's blog. Essentially I (and others) realize that the "no choice" punishment is a risky thing for a loving disciplinarian. In the case of weak resistance, a firm stand is often beneficial, but taking a firm stand when the subordinate is genuinely in disagreement and exhibiting obvious signs of protest, can lead to damaging resentment. And what sane and loving Top wants THAT? But knowing when to stand firm and when not to is.......tricky.

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  6. "Still a Mom" is a fine story, and reminds me of a story or three that I have written, on the same subject of asking MY Mom for a spanking, even though she had never given me one.

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    1. Thank you.

      Where may your stories be found?

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    2. I'll post a long answer to this, some hours from mow.

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    3. The truthful answer is "on my hard drive at work". But that's not helpful, if you were asking with the idea in mind of reading them.

      I decided to write my long answer as a blog entry on my secondary blog, and it can be found HERE:

      http://bruisedbottomguy.blogspot.com/2017/02/my-fiction-and-stories.html

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    4. Thank you. I replied at your blog.

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  7. I was informed prior to marrying that "in-law" did not exist. This from the widow Mom of my wife to be. She is a great woman, if younger would have married her. Her daughter is a copy of her mother in many ways. Four months or so of being married, messed up visiting her, she just smiled and said "son of mind, lets have a talk in the bedroom", her hand and hairbrush did all the talking, bare from the waist down I stood facing both my wife and her mother in the front room, dancing around, rubbing. Mother knows best does she not Son and looking at her I said yes.

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    1. Thank you, whoever you are (since you did not sign a name.....despite my repeated requests that anonymous posters do so) for such a wonderful example of a NON SEXQUITUR! My only regret is that it was not in reply to the Non Sexquitur post itself, because THAT would have just been TOO ironic. And it's a classic.I could not have written a better example myself. So let's use yours:

      "I was informed prior to marrying that "in-law" did not exist."

      I believe this to be more true than probably intended.

      "This from the widow Mom of my wife to be. She is a great woman, if younger would have married her."

      Ah but then you'd be your wife's father and that is just not kosher.

      "Her daughter is a copy of her mother in many ways."

      Don't you love how combinations of guanine, cytosine, adenine, and thymine will do that?

      "Four months or so of being married, messed up visiting her, she just smiled and said "son of mind, lets have a talk in the bedroom",

      I think she is of your mind as well.

      "her hand and hairbrush did all the talking,"

      Do you think that if someone from another country lets their hairbrush do the talking, that the smacks land with accents?

      "bare from the waist down I stood facing both my wife and her mother in the front room, dancing around, rubbing."

      I think you might be naked from the waist down and rubbing now as well. (though it's not something I want to think about.)

      "Mother knows best does she not Son and looking at her I said yes."

      A little punctuation would go a long way in this last sentence.

      Now, I want you to read my post on "Non sexquiturs" and answer the questions there. If you answer 'yes' to any of them I'm going to send you to Merry who will thrash you with roses.

      BTW.....did I ever tell you how paper is made?

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    2. T'wernt nuthin', Ma'am.

      (Just keep those roses handy. You might want to pull a Morticia Addams and nip off the flowers so only the thorns are left.)

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    3. I deleted the previous post because of typos, and I don't want KDP to make fun of me.
      May I recommend a full-body application of stinging nettles?

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    4. I only jump on a typo if it provides a humorous opportunity to make fun of a greater annoyance. We all make typos, and being in a loving relationship with someone for whom English is a second language, I also tend to avoid criticizing poor grammar.......if the only issue IS poor grammar.

      You have nothing to worry about.

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    5. My tongue was firmly in cheek when I wrote the comment about making fun of me. For myself, I dislike making typos when I can easily proofread a post before releasing it.

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    6. I am a big fan of tongue-in-cheek.................from the figurative to the literal. Though literally I suppose it's more 'tongue between cheeks'? ;-)

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    7. "Naughty!!!"

      My instinctive reaction was to say, "Thanks. I try" but the truth is I don't try. Naughty just comes naturally. ;-)

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  8. Thanks for sharing those special details of your own Maternal spankings via the story, "Still A Mom". It was a very well written and thoughtful account of a the seasoned mature matronly disciplinarian, paired with a younger man. I like that mix, it is frankly one of my favorites. For most of my life my spanking fascinations have involved naughty boys, (legal age) fit and athletic, paired with stern, dominant older women. While the young man seem physically able to escape their spanking ordeals, it is sometimes those invisible ties that bind that are the most difficult.

    Franco

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    1. Thank you, Franco. While I enjoy all sorts of pairings, ( i have mentioned Marta in other past posts and how I am hoping that one day she uses the authority Rosa has given her to spank me.....and Marta is just a little less than 10 years older than me. ) But my favorite pairings fall in the category of 'reversals', where the spanker is actually considerably younger than their victim. But when you get right down to it, under differing circumstances, it ALL works.

      Thank you for your thought-out comment. Please join us for more!

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    2. FRANCO!! I am such a fan! I am sure it was YOUR art that sparked my passion for maternal spankings!Do you remember chatting with me on AIM, seven or eight years ago?

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    3. I'm sure once we get chatting. I'm glad your here. This is a very interesting blog. And I look forward to catching up with you.

      Franco

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    4. I'd like to echo Merryslave's comment. I am a big fan too and you were one of my first internet spanking artist "discoveries". Your "older woman" and maternal-type scenarios are some of my favorites and that, and occasional "daddy" type spankings are my "thing" in particular. Thanks for your work.

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  9. kdpierre, does it count in your favorite pairings that Merry is, um, a bit younger than me?

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  10. Dear Kdpierre....I have enjoyed your maternal writings so much, you have inspired me. However I have a different twist. I was wondering how you felt about submissions? 2ndly, I was hoping that you'd visit another "maternal-ish" venue in future...

    Just a couple of thoughts, and of course...bottoms up

    Franco

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    1. Thank you. As for your questions, why not e-mail me what you had in mind more specifically? (If you need it, my address is in my profile.)

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  11. I thoroughly enjoy all these discussions about the nuances of who prefers which kind of disciplinarian (older, younger, maternal, multiple spankers, etc).

    For me, the delicious stuff is in the anticipation, the sight of a woman, pretty much any woman, getting ready to give a spanking. I do enjoy reminiscing after a good spanking too. But when the spanking is underway none of that stuff even exists in my head. If anything, all I can think of is "I gotta be completely nuts to be here."

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    1. I feel similarly, Tomy. Thanks for the input.

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