......in all the wrong places.
But to get to these few, I had to endure a LOT of CRAP! Pros are rampant and only interested in money, and others are just..............well...........a little bit (or a lot) crazy. Others still are just plain rude.
No, I think that the best way to meet kinky women online is through participation on like-minded forums online. And again, just like the real world, you can't go in aggressively hunting. You just need to participate and see who is around and if you hit it off. I met at least three, solid, decent people this way. Under other circumstances, I could have definitely have ended up with one of them had not Rosa come along when she did.
The same could be said for munches in the real world. It doesn't hurt to look into a few in your area. You never know. The mine could be tapped-out or still holding treasure waiting for the right person to find it.
But keep in mind, these ladies, if available, are still looking for decent guys. Don't try to seduce them with your most elaborate fantasy. Talk to them about what you do. Be interesting. Charm them with humor and flirt very lightly, if at all. Be patient. Kinky women online are BESIEGED by WEIRDOS constantly. Don't come across like another one!
We just talked about finding women in places where they have pretty much 'come out' as dominants. And while looking for a diamond in a jewelry shop makes more sense than searching for one in Toys R Us, my earlier mining analogy is a valid concern. The people who hit it big during the Gold Rush were usually the ones who got to a particular spot first. Most munches, clubs, and forums have been around a while and have been picked through by a lot of previous 'miners'. In Part 3 we will discuss finding the dominant women who are out there hiding in plain sight.