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Tuesday, January 9, 2018

Feeling it

While I do not have an exact date, I can say with some certainty that today ......or maybe even a couple of days ago......marked two months of o-lessness for THIS horny boy! And while I have gone longer.....even much longer.....in my past, two months are definitely longer than what I've been used to in recent years. And the fact is, while I am OK mentally, my body is definitely feeling it!

Not a picture of me.....but so close it made me look twice! Add a little more hair to the legs and a couple of  hernia scars and you'd have a difficult time telling this apart from the real me. However, the reason I chose this shot was because I can definitely relate to the frustrated drooling!

What's more is that I know from some leading communications that today is going to be a day of activity accentuating my condition. ( I'll leave it at that for now.)


One thing about being chaste for two months is that it gives you a lot of time (and incentive) to think about what it means in practical, everyday, real life terms to have the kinds of rules I have regarding orgasms and even just touching. Being a male submissive who thrives under the control of others, there is definitely an aspect that welcomes the restriction......even as the restriction sometimes makes life difficult. But to say living like this is always easy? No. Not at all. There are plenty of times I feel like I should just be able to grab myself and give myself an O. But deep down I know that not only are my rules there to be obeyed, but also there for a reason. Free rein masturbation and touching would not be good for me at all. And every dominant woman who has ever controlled me in any way, has always come to that same conclusion......even if the thought of chastity and denial seemed alien or cruel to them initially.

Besides, I have seen over time that women......especially dominant ones......have this thing about having power over their men's masturbation. I don't think there are too many women who like knowing that their guys masturbate. Most accept it, but I still don't think they like it. So when given the chance to control the practice, women seem to take to it to some degree. (Even the women who are vanilla in their own relationships, who know about my situation, seem to all have an approving attitude rather than a sympathetic one. Go figure.)

Anyway, regardless of all that, the fact remains that here I am: already o-less for two months and feeling horny as all get-out, with the prospect of only more teasing and o-lessness ahead. But I doubt I'll get much sympathy on this one. ;-)

10 comments:

  1. I agree with you that women do seem to gravitate toward controlling their men's orgasms, though I have no idea why. Honestly, it turns me on knowing my wife masturbates, but women do not seem to feel the same way about their men's solo activities.

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    1. Good point......and for me there's not only something about knowing that Rosa can masturbate whenever she wants, but also that ANYONE I know can as well.

      It's kind of weird for me at times to just think of all the people around......not just female (but they do seem to make the thoughts more.......poignant) who go about their lives free to do this thing that I cannot. It's very humbling.

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    2. A few months ago, my wife's interest in FLR seemed to jump a bit, and she asked for resources to read. I sent her to some FLR and Femdom-oriented blogs and websites. Her one and only takeaway seemed to be a new "no masturbation" rule.

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    3. Has the rule become official? I don't recall you mentioning that.

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  2. my wife and i have agreed to limiting my o's to 24 for 2018. we have pondered extended time between public holidays but have not decided. like you i am not allowed the privaledge of masturbation.

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    1. Timing, frequency, and conditions are very personal to each couple.....and even then, they can change as a couple evolves. I think that in the case of a relationship where the male has agreed to take on the submissive role, control over orgasms and masturbation seems like a logical step in establishing authority for the woman. I know everyone is different but just from a gut feeling on D/s aspect, I find it hard to see how a man can be left free in this area and still have the woman feel in control. But that's just my opinion. Of course there are all sorts of people and opinions out there.

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  3. I know for me, my Sir finds the thought of me masturbating as hot. As something he wants to join in on. Thinking about men in general jerking it... it's not sexy, with few exceptions. Maybe that's part of it? Just a thought. I had a boyfriend back in the day where it was a downright compulsion, several times a day. It doesn't really bother me that it happens, but I suppose I incorrectly link it to unworthiness in myself. If I was enough, would it be necessary. Well, the answer is yes, and you just have to get over yourself, you know?

    A big thing in my household was actually that I had to get over and accept my Sir masturbating. Not the act in itself, but not relating it to perceived dissatisfaction with me. Any time he'd do it and I'd be home, I'd want to do the job myself.

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    1. Welcome, Lea, and thanks for the comment. It supports a feeling I've grown to see confirmed repeatedly......one of the ONLY real differences between D/s-DD in M/f or F/m is this one. Men just seem to be way into their women having O's....be they dominant or submissive. Women on the other hand, seem to resent the ease and flippancy with which men indulge or overindulge this activity and prefer sex time to be with them.

      And your second point about masturbation not indicating a problem with a partner is VERY well taken. Thank you.

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  4. I know BIKSS is happy for me to masturbate. he thinks its hot and has asked me to have a cum when we're not tog.

    i guess in the past it has also been as Lea said (for me) - i often felt that here I was willing to have sex anytime you wanted and you'd prefer to jerk off instead.

    But since i'm not 24/7 with BIKSS, this hasn't been an issue for me in this relationship.

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    1. Thanks for the input, Fondles. You seem to echo Lea's words above. More affirmation of how this issue seems to be more about gender than dynamic.

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