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Friday, February 15, 2019

Expectations & reality

Well I suppose it's time to finally write about some DD. As you may recall I had a nasty 2000-spank punishment coming for upsetting Ana on Christmas. And while things didn't exactly move along swiftly, the full punishment has been given. In fact, it happened a fair while ago and I just didn't feel like writing about it. 

Recently Dan has been having a good discussion going about consistency and striving for whatever we all want our DD arrangement to be. And while I am only human and have these same goals, I have found they never quite work out like we would wish them to...or more accurately....expect them to.

Take the Christmas Slip punishment as a real life example. If you scroll back you can read how everyone was totally on board with this. Ana pronounced a devastating number, I sent Rosa a personal note (approved by Ana) and Rosa was in total agreement with her daughter about my culpability. So naturally things just sped right off after that and I got multiple installments on sequential days making my punishment almost unendurable just as everyone seemed to want, right? Nope.

It took a long time for Rosa to be in the right frame of mind to begin and several days passed with the slip sitting on our dresser, but when she did, she did so with a nasty 400 in one round! 
A terrible shot of the aftermath!

I tried again to capture the color....which if seen in person or in a mirror was spectacular.....but to no avail. I will be discussing this photo issue  in another post.

I was so sore the next day, I dreaded round 2. But I had nothing to fear. One thing after another delayed the second installment until I was pretty much recovered.....which while beneficial for me personally....was not the intention behind a 2000 spank punishment. 

A couple of days later, Rosa made up for the delay with two separate installments of 300 each! Still nasty, but not as bad as if I had gotten them the next day. I related the developments to Ana, since this was her punishment, and she said that she was actually okay with the delay as long as the spankings themselves were appropriately punitive....which they were.

After the 600 spank session, Rosa did order another installment the next day, and as expected, it was unbearable! So much so that I could not help wriggling like an eel on a ship deck and no amount of reprimand or personal effort could stop my reactions. Rosa even asked me outright about the excessive flailing and I just told her how it felt to get spanked on top of a pretty sore bottom. She understood and continued for a bit, but I think she was unhappy about having a nearly 200 pound tuna flopping on her lap and consequently ended the spanking after 150.......which is rare for us.

Then several days passed again before I got another 400. And oddly enough, when I got the last 450 the following day, for some reason I was able to handle it without the fuss I had made previously. 

I really think taking a hard punishment spanking is partly physical but also very psychological. If I am in a certain frame of mind, I find I can take a hard punishment better than a moderate one if I am in the wrong frame of mind. Anyway, that ended the Christmas punishment.

We also began the long overdue year-end slips, but have a ways to go on that.....and as described above, life is just firmly dedicated to interfering.


10 comments:

  1. Definitely agree about the psychological aspect. When I'm in the right frame of mind I think I could take 2000 spanks... when I'm not in the mood I struggle with 20!

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    1. Funny how powerful our minds can be in relation to our bodies!

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  2. Hey, you got your full assigned punishment (swats) within what I'd consider to be a reasonable time frame--two sets of 300 each on the same day, I'd say that Rosa was quite effective once she got fully focused.

    Of course, what may seem high-priority to one participant in a disciplinary situation might feel like it's a "When I'm in the mood, with adequate time and energy..." matter to the other one. (I deal with that oft-frustrating 'disconnect' quite a bit myself.)

    I'm in agreement that his/her mental/emotional state has a definite influence on how much butt-blistering a spankee can effectively endure, particularly the ability to reach 'subspace'... --C.K.

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    1. Thanks for your input, CK. Always appreciated!

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  3. Never having given that many spanks i can only imagine how sore you were. We also have a problem when taking pictures as the redness just does not show up. I also feel the frame of mind has a lot to do with how many you can take and hold position.
    archedone

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    1. I will be doing a follow-up on the photo issue. It seems like a weird thing but also seems very common among our circle.

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  4. "wriggling like an eel on a ship deck and no amount of reprimand or personal effort could stop my reactions" Brilliant my Dear Watson, brilliant.

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    1. Thank you, Tomy.

      [The naughty imp in me was so tempted to say: "No shit, Sherlock." LOL ;-) ]

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  5. I've definitely experienced the psychological aspect you describe. Though, I also wonder whether there really is a physical component, too. Sometimes, it just hurts a lot more. Maybe the nerve sensitivity varies based on time between spankings, how much I've been sitting, the weather . . . who knows. But, there definitely can be major differences. I've also found that different paddles can make a huge difference, even if roughly the same size. There was one she got particularly into for a while that felt like I was being hit by a 2x4. Oddly, it was a fairly light and thin paddle. But, OMG did it hurt.

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    1. So many factors seem to come into play with this. But for me the emotional one seems to overrule all others.

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