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Wednesday, June 5, 2019

Cleared up

So I couldn’t stand it anymore. I had to know.

For months I’ve been owed a genuine punishment from Nickki that she had discussed with me several times and teased about on quite a few occasions. If you recall she even started carrying her paddle around in her handbag and sent me a picture saying this was so she could just pop over and deliver a scorching whenever she felt like it. And yet, that never happened. The promised punishment we are discussing was decreed back in January. It is now June. Given my experiences with people who start out willing and then have a change of heart, I started to become worried that Nickki might no longer be embracing her authority as enthusiastically as she did at first. So I just bluntly, flat-out asked her about it in a text.

Because some personal stuff was shared in the texts, I am not going to repeat all of them here this time, but suffice it to say, she was just overwhelmed with life but still very interested. It was more of procrastination fueled by stress and circumstance than not wanting to do it. She even brought up carrying the paddle around, saying how she purposely did that so she could just impulsively pop over and surprise me.....and yet she just kept putting it off. However, Nickki did understand why I was asking and admitted that it was indeed a long time to put off something that should have been dealt with months ago. 

I assured her I understood her reasons and admitted to having the same sorts of things happen here as well, but that I was relieved that was all it was. And after a bit of mushy nice-nice between friends, she shifted gears right into “disciplinarian mode”, warning me that now that everything was cleared up I should know that I had indeed roused “the sleeping giant” and would pay the price all too soon.

Admittedly, her tone was a mix of humor and threat, which is typical of Nickki’s style, and when I tried to assure her that I was ok with it all, she went full-Domme on me and said that at this point only her perceptions matter and that she was going to give it to me but GOOD!

Later I went to pick up Rosa from work and as Rosa approached the car I could see she was on her phone…...with…..(you guessed it) Nickki! And i know they both spoke again last night went  went out fishing for a bit. So, I think my punishment is not far off now. And based on how my butt was burning and throbbing from our last encounter…..which was not nearly as serious as this issue is…….I’m thinking that this is probably going to be even worse. One thing about Nickki is, friends or not, she isn’t afraid to spank hard and now she seems motivated to make that happen.


6 comments:

  1. Well good for you hope it is memorable.

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    1. Thanks. We shall see. She's certainly not shy about hitting hard.

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  2. KD, I have a question. It may seem silly or naïve, but I’m asking as someone who has never been involved in any kind of public spanking “scene” the way you have. I also don’t want the question to sound judgmental. I’m just curious. Okay, the question is this: Isn’t being spanked an extremely sexual thing to be done by a woman who isn’t your partner? I know spanking is highly erotic for my husband. He has told me that it is his oldest and most powerful masturbation fantasy, so I figure that if I allowed another woman to spank him, it would be a highly sexual experience for him. Am I overestimating the sexual aspect of spanking? I mean, for you, is a spanking just a spanking? Or does Rosa allow other women to spank you because she doesn’t mind you having a sexual experience with another woman? (As mentioned, I’m not asking based on any moral judgment. My husband has cuckold fantasies that we play with, after all). Sorry if this question is too personal. Please feel free to delete it, if it is.
    Danielle

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    1. No actually it's a great question and one I've been asked many times. For me spanking is just like kissing. You can kiss your Mom, your sister, your child, the Pope's ring, a despot's foot, a friend, a lover, and who knows what else. All technically "kisses". All very different. And in fact think of some of those examples with regard to physical punishment. My Mom spanked me, and though I never spanked my kids, the concept is not unheard of. I've been spanked for punishment, for a dare, as a play penalty, for birthday whacks, as a proxy for someone else, and even for eroticism in its own right. I suppose I could also be apprehended in Singapore and be caned there. Each example involves striking a butt, yet they are all very different or have different nuances.

      So for me with Nickki it's definitely a little sex-y but not sex-ual. So is flirting. Rosa flirts outrageously as do I and neither of us are possessive or jealous types. So I guess we see this as not a sexual issue and to the degree that it may be a little adult and sexy, is well within our boundaries.

      I don't think Rosa would appreciate if Nickki said to me after a spanking, "OK KD, now show me some gratitude for spanking you and kiss my butt!"

      Also every spanking is approved by Rosa so she has total control and of the two spankings Nickki has given me, one was in front of Rosa and the other was in their basement with Rosa and Jean talking upstairs in the living room.

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    2. Thanks for answering my question, KD. I guess I understand, although I’m not sure I get all the different psychological nuances you describe. Okay, I totally get “sex-y but not sex-ual”, like “flirting”. I enjoy flirting with men other than my husband, especially now that I feel empowered by FLR to do so with my husband’s blessing. There can be a pleasurably “sexy” feeling, even though there is no intent to have sex. I guess being spanked by a woman other than your partner is like that, right? Come to think of it, I think I can imagine getting that kind of pleasure from giving a spanking to a man other than my husband, or from handing my husband over to another woman for a spanking, maybe a woman who would spank him harder than he’s used to or one that he would feel really embarrassed by. Those are sexy ideas. I can’t imagine either of those things happening for real because we don’t have any acquaintances I could imagine it happening with. But I can see the allure of it for you, having your long history of kinky activities and connections with other like-minded people. I almost wish Wayne and I had discovered kink at a younger age, but that’s my fault, I guess.
      Danielle

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    3. See? It's not that big a stretch. Intent, nuance, compartmentalization, all mental processes that enable humans to enjoy a variety of activities that could be problematic to black-and-white thinkers. ;-)

      One thing I heard a long time ago has always stuck with me and has become truer with each passing year: some past survey of senior adults revealed that most lifetime regrets were over things NOT DONE, or chances not taken, than mistakes made.

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