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Saturday, July 10, 2021

Appealing......in a way

There are all sorts of images of spankers out there. Any 'search' can yield a cornucopia of dominant ladies wielding implements, from Pro-Dommes to Pro-Disciplinarians, to Pro Models, to amateur disciplinarians, to regular people with a kinky streak. Blogs like Red's now defunct "Consensual Spanking" or Prefectd's "SpankedHortic II" offer, or did offer, regular samples of these ladies.....and men as well. 

The more slick options feature polished stereotypes, with attractive ladies squeezed into chic fetishwear. Even the non-leather "disciplinarians" tend to appear in sharp business attire, often contrasting some conservative skirt with a plunging neckline, though a few do take the "professional look" to more modest levels. Lacking any special immunity, I admit these curvy vixens have their appeal. So when I stumbled across the following image in the search for something else, I was surprised by the powerful appeal it had. And unlike those "innocent" pictures that get twisted with captions to look kinky, the subject is clearly holding a paddle.

I am assuming from the look of this shot that this a a real life amateur woman who likes to spank. But I suppose some sharp-eyed and well-versed reader here might counter: "Oh no, KD, that's Becky Bunburner, a professional model and disciplinarian out of  Scranton, who caters to a niche of spanko clients who like their Dominants to look like everyday people. She actually is very popular and consequently affluent and lives in a mansion and vacations in Europe decked out in Balenciaga." If this is the case...........I'm not sure I want to know. LOL

To be candid, I can't say this young lady adheres to any type I might find myself gravitating towards. Nothing suggests she and I would even hit it off. BUT........and this is a "but" at least as ample as the one she appears to be sitting upon.........she is holding a paddle!

Now you must be thinking: 'Geez! who would have thought a snobby fucker like KDP would have such minimal standards, that merely holding a paddle is enough to rev his engines?' Well let me explain.

I never said I would seek this person out as a partner. Maybe. It's possible. I don't know her and depending on what she's like, I might very well find myself intrigued or enthralled, but that is wild speculation. She could be married, single, hell, she could even be a Lesbian with or without a partner! And outside of wild speculation, taking place in some imaginary world where I am single and on the prowl, the fact remains that I am happily married and have no desire to trade Rosa in for ANYONE! No, I just see this woman and think of her as someone I could easily meet through friends, or whatever. AND she IS holding a paddle. 

So, here is a person who is not overly made up with severe lipstick and arched brows. She doesn't seem obsessed with fashion let alone fetish gear. Her feet are not strapped into stilettos or encased in boots. Her appearance is modest to a point of plainness, not even offering a glimpse of cleavage via a lower neckline. But....................she IS .....clearly........holding a paddle. 

To my way of thinking.......or at least  in my imagination......this woman is telling us what's important to her and what is not. Her paddle is important, the superfluous accoutrements are not. As such, should I ever encounter her, and  she seemed reasonable, friendly, trustworthy and all of the other key elements one seeks in a friend, and Rosa liked her and was willing to lend me out (as she often does to trustworthy friends) and, once given permission, she ambled over to a chair across the room, sat, summoned me over.................. I would head over thinking that I was in for one helluva spanking.....particularly with that paddle she's holding. 

You see, to me, it's not how pretty a spanker is, or how well attired, or seductive. In my experience the single most important attribute a spanker can possess is the sincere, driving, almost vehement desire to spank. I'm not interested in someone interested in a buck, whose skill has been honed by repeated practice on loyal clientele. I'm not intrigued by someone more interested in looking the part than being what she feels drives her. No, while anyone technically can spank......since it's pretty fucking easy to slam a paddle into a waiting rump....and even a posed, or paid for, or fashionable spanking can still be pretty satisfying, nothing can compare to going across the lap of a lady WHO JUST REALLY WANTS TO DO IT......

.......and.......is holding a paddle!





12 comments:

  1. Fare point and with real life women who spank I wholeheartedly agree. But with photographs, I am also looking for an image that has had some thought and effort put into it, even if this does result in an image that does not represent all female spankers. I have been interested in photography since my teenage years. Although my own particular love is for landscape and architectural images, I have found that I appreciate the skill of people creating images in other genres of photography. My only criticism of that photograph is that it is a snapshot and not a photograph created with any attempt at skilled imagery. But even that is not a real criticism, sometimes a snapshot is all you want.

    Prefectdt

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    1. Oh I totally agree about the photographic aspect. Absolutely! There is nothing artistic about this shot. And I like a good photo as much and perhaps more than most. You do an excellent job of curating kinky images and this post was in no way a criticism of that. In fact I mentioned you and Red because you two stand out as dedicated curators of kinky images and I was showing how something so unartistic, with a subject so anti-stereotype can still be appealing.

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  2. I agree with you. She's holding a paddle. Or, at least a hairbrush, with the business side displayed.

    Whatever else she has or doesn't have going for her, this photo makes her attractive. Good job!

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    1. Welcome, Rich. Please feel free to look around.

      I suspected this could be a flipped around hairbrush, but the rhythm wasn't the same. LOL ( It's like the "pickle" explanation in "The Sunshine Boys".)

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  3. LOL yes. she IS holding a Paddle! I enjoyed this post :)

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    1. Darn it, you're right: she IS holding a paddle. ;-)

      Thanks.

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  4. She certainly looks like she could do some damage with that paddle alright.
    If I walked into the room and saw that , I would be very worried.
    The little hint of a smirk on het face suggests she intends to enjoy every minute of It!

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    1. Hi, Glen. Nice to see you here again.

      Yeah, she looks.................dangerous. (IN a fun way).

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  5. Good thing you have it good at your household ;)
    Ana

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    1. No complaints. Four bosses/no waiting. LOL

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  6. Well, this seemingly disciplinary lady's facial expression could be mild boredom or it could be controlled annoyance--I'd much prefer the latter, so that she would receive considerable gratification upon turning me bare-bottom-up over her ample lap for a solid smacking encounter with that paddle (or possibly hairbrush back).

    You did mention this issue in your story "The Arrangement," and I tend to agree on this with the male protagonist--I prefer my feminine spanker to be a 'down-to-earth' woman who will do a serious, workmanlike (or "workwomanlike") job of blistering my buttcheeks, not a classic black-leather-clad dominatrix nor a sultry-looking, glamourous seductress to whom spanking me is just one of many erotic practices.

    If she's "the typical woman next door," that's fine, and if she's "the woman always next to me in bed," even better... --C.K.

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    1. Ooops, I missed this.

      I hope it's not boredom.

      That 'regular look' is a definite plus for me. I suppose dressing up is fine for occasional play fun. We've done it on occasion. But it's a tiny percentage of our routine.

      Even Nickki 'dressed up' leatherlike the first time. She still mentions having the occasional desire to dress up again. Me? I like when I show up and she just looks like herself, but.....again....for a change of pace? Who knows? Could be fun.

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