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Saturday, January 5, 2019

"I dare ya."

When it comes to serious DD, I am the first to condemn the practice of 'bratting' to get attention (and we all know what I mean in this case by "attention".) But in the broader view, I think as in all aspects of life, there are situations that sometime call for unusual methods. Take last night.

I had a very long day of travel to and from the Philly area after spending a good part of the day installing new locks, doorknobs, and other odd jobs in my daughter's new house. When I arrived home I was surprised to hear my Rosa tell me that we had just been invited to go over to Nickki & Jean's house for some Jenga, Yahtzee, and drinking. All it took was a quick shower and I was ready!

Now unfortunately our friends have recently been bombarded by some pretty upsetting things, but I don't need to go into all of that here. Still the evening was a mix of ups and downs and a lot of in-betweens......so it was probably good we were there for them. As the evening went on Rosa sort of paired up with Jean and I with Nickki as often happens, and each 'couple' had their own side conversations. Naturally Nickki's and mine drifted towards DD and I figured it was the perfect time to tell her that Rosa and I had decided to do the year end close-out  punishment thing again .....only we had figured that given the new circumstances, Nickki would be free to execute the punishments herself this time. 

Interestingly Nickki confessed she had recently had a similar thought and was going to surprise us with a visit....but weather interfered and she stayed home. But that admission was enough for me to feel comfortable taking the conversation further. One thing that  Nickki said was that she was having a hard time resolving two conflicting feelings: on one hand, after our first spanking adventure and follow-up conversations she felt a strong desire to have another go .......only THIS time hard enough to give me the really red butt she was after. But because she also felt like my assistance through the year with their new home was so helpful, she couldn't find any way to be upset with me. As a result she was thinking that maybe she should do the year end thing as a REWARD spanking.

I understood her position and we discussed Ana and her approach: there's no need to have negatives wipe out the positive or vice versa. In other words, you can be rewarded for the good you've done while still being accountable for the bad. Nickki seemed to like that and agreed she'd like to be able to go into the spanking with a bit of punitive zeal. So I suggested that since there were two separate punishments involved in the event (close-out of 2018 and kick-off for 2019) she could treat the close-out as the reward she suggested, but then she could adopt a more stern approach for her 'warning to behave' in 2019. She seemed to like that.

After discussing this topic for a while there was definitely some energy in the air. But because the night had been a bit of an emotional roller-coaster, there was also some hesitation as well. I reminded her about now having  a lot of freedom to act, but added that to enjoy it she would eventually have to act. Then I teased her that "hey, you could do something now if you wanted. Rosa's right in the next room. Do you really think if you asked her she's going to refuse you?" She assured me she was well aware of that and then made some excuse about why she shouldn't, but I got the sense that perhaps she was thinking about it. 

So then I did something utterly brattish and juvenile. (but pretty funny) I summoned up all of the cockiest attitude I could muster, and leaning in with a big grin, said "I DARE ya." Nickki gave me a look and again started to dismiss the dare but I just rolled my eyes sarcastically and said, "yeah, yeah, all talk." Well that's all it took. Nickki got up with an evil smirk and walked into the next room where I could just make out that she was talking to Rosa, but I couldn't hear her words. I did hear Rosa give emphatic consent though!

The next thing I see is Nickki re-entering the dining room, armed with her paddle, and sporting a look of pure smug vengeance. She pointed at me and ordered me to follow her. She led me to their basement and said that she didn't want me over her lap this time but rather face down, butt up on the futon. I could use pillows to raise my bottom. She would then spank from a standing position because she wanted more leverage so she could achieve the red butt she was after. She also didn't want me naked this time, pants off was good enough. So I stripped off my jeans and boxers and plopped myself over a small pile of pillows and waited. 

Then Nickki gave me a really good spanking! At first she used the paddle across both buttocks at once but she did so hard. I was having an appropriately difficult time of it as she now got to tease ME: "So, you think you're going to challenge me in my own house?" she asked rhetorically while slamming the paddle down. 

Then after a good bit of serious paddling, she paused and her voice changed back to normal as she told me that I was bleeding and she figured she should probably stop. She seemed either concerned or disappointed, maybe both. I asked her if it was like a true cut or a dot and she said it was a dot. I explained that what probably happened was that because I shave back there I sometimes get these little ingrown hair 'pimples' and that she probably just broke one of them. I told her it happens every now and then with Rosa and that she just ignores it because it's nothing serious. Nickki said she did notice that I had a couple of those 'pimples' and that at long as it wasn't a problem, she was fine with continuing. I promised her that I was fine if she wanted to continue and I even offered her some advice about using the paddle one cheek at a time. And with that bit of reassurance, out popped the evil side of my friend and the spanking continued with equal fervor. 

Taking my advice on the single cheek spanks (which she even thanked me for telling her about) she struck my left cheek repeatedly and then just alternated in all sorts of patterns. Going back to scolding, she brought up her disappointment about me not following her instructions after her Halloween Party spanking and I found myself sincerely apologizing as I wriggled like a sorry little boy. She even scolded me for the wriggling and told me to stay in position and take my punishment. I obeyed and even decided to arch up a bit and offer her a better shot at my bottom. After all of my previous wriggling I thought of the gesture as a kind of wordless agreement that I fully accepted her spanks as deserved, something she not only noticed but even commented on approvingly. She also wasted no time in taking full advantage of my more vulnerable positioning, landing strong swats to the lower curves of my bottom.....the good old 'sit-spots' that seem to be such favorite targets for enthusiastic spankers.

I don't know how many I got but when she told me we were done I definitely knew I had been spanked by someone who MEANT IT. After redressing Nickki suggested we sit together and she held me very maternally and we discussed the spanking a bit before rejoining Rosa and Jean. As we got up I asked Nickki if this was her contribution for the 2018/2019 punishment and she said "oh no. This was just for you teasing me. The other will come another time."


This not-very-good 'selfie' is how my bottom looked when we got home.....I hate how it's so hard to capture the color of what was there  if anyone saw me in person!

Naturally I got a little knowing smile from Rosa but not as much teasing as I thought I might, and Nickki and I just joined the current conversation. As I sat I could not only feel my bottom predictably burning but actually THROBBING in steady pulses! (something I told Nickki in a text later).  So I can honestly say that I am well on my way to seeing Nickki in a whole new way. This last spanking proved she is a force to be reckoned with and neither afraid to spank hard nor lacking in confidence that it's her right to do so. What will be interesting going forward is how things will be once she begins to initiate spankings without any goading from me.


And to prove Nickki's spanking was as memorable as I said, THIS is me this afternoon. A little better quality, since I had more time to try to get it right. Still pretty pink.....and still tender too!





14 comments:

  1. Jean and I Just read your post it was as if I was doing it all over again.I'm glad to see my work yielded the bottom I originally wanted for your pre birthday gift. You look really HOT my good friend. Love you guys

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    1. Thanks Nickki and thanks to Jean too for being cool with this "strange stuff". Love you both.

      Thanks for the joke about being 'hot'. It's more accurate than you might think LOL. And I can honestly say that like I wrote in the post, and like we discussed in person, I feel like each time you take action, it's like you're putting another chip on your side of the otherwise balanced scale of our friendship, tipping certain aspects more and more in favor of your authority. It's kind of impressive to watch that shift especially while also being a part of it.

      Now of course, yesterday I was just flat out 'asking for it' LOL It's going to be interesting for me to see where and when you decide to initiate something based on your own feelings.

      I love my two Honeys! (and Rosa makes three) ;-)

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  2. Wonderful job! I'm sure it was fun for all.

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    1. Thanks, Merry! Yes, I have to admit that with her second attempt, Nickki proved that she has the skill and temperament to be a very effective disciplinarian. And as for 'fun'? Well yeah, to a degree, sure.....but honestly? while the 'dare ya' and taunting might have been initiated in fun, when she reprimanded me for challenging her while spanking me, she had me feeling pretty genuinely apologetic! LOL Maybe you could say "fun for her" and a "gratifying learning experience for me" . ;-)

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  3. I dared a woman I was seeing to spank me. She would sometimes say I needed a spanking. I did not have any idea what would happen, it was a learning experience. My dare was done by walking into the kitchen, naked, erect. She quickly grabbed my arm, took me to the bedroom, sat on the bed, quickly over her lap and she spanked me with her hairbrush. I never knew she could spank so hard or would spank. My bottom was stinging and very red. She asked me how was that, I was rubbing and saying it really hurt. She smiled and said good and told me to get to the kitchen. I had to face the wall while she prepared breakfast. I was told to put on a robe prior to breakfast and I was squirming, she just smiled. I did not dare her again, but she did continue to spank me when she felt it necessary.

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    1. Please leave a name although I'm assuming this is "Jack"? Yes, I'm not a big fan of daring and did it more to 'break the ice'. Now I'm hoping Nickki just acts independently in the future like your friend did.

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    2. Sorry forgot to sign. I dared because the desire was so strong, the slim chance she would do it. As for future spankings, she decides and it does not matter where or when. Jack

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    3. Ah, see? I thought it was you, Jack.

      And yes.....with the 'ice' broken, it will be a where and when of her choosing......and Rosa's consenting.

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  4. Be careful what you ask for you might get it. Sounds like a fun time was had by all.

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  5. Happy that Nickki is having fun with it. We hope there is more to come for you. Real life can be as much fun as fantasy. John G.

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    1. Thanks, John. I just talked to Nickki on the phone yesterday about the latest post and during the conversation she let me know that whatever happens with Ana, Rosa, or whomever....I am STILL going to get a good 2018/2019 spanking set from her! Ouch!

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  6. Well, following "I DARE ya" with "yeah, yeah, all talk," that's classic 'bratting' behavior, at least in my understanding of the term, with the effect of pushing a potential spanker who's interested yet still a touch reluctant into taking action.

    Sometimes it's the only approach that works, I suppose, however I do agree that at best it should be employed sparingly or it loses its effect. Still, in this case it likely worked better than just saying "Come on, spank me good and proper, I want you to."

    That's not necessarily the ideal mindset for either spanker or spankee, I'm thinking, and possibly the 'spanking play' can become more real once the walloping is underway and the chastiser becomes caught up in her role... --C.K.

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    1. True, CK. All true. And it worked and i'm glad I did it and it hasn't seemed to undermine anything in its doing. So I guess it was a rare card well played at that moment.

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