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Friday, February 14, 2020

Happy Valentine's Day


Like I said yesterday, I have quite thoroughly exhausted much of the kinkier or adult imagery associated with today, and that made me think that maybe, just maybe, what Valentine's Day needs is a modern update so that the ladies could see Cupid as something other than a  cute, corny cherub in a diaper. Perhaps something a little grittier and more age-appropriate? So......... Ladies, may I introduce........

CUPID 2020

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!



20 comments:

  1. valentines days past we have hosted the friends who know about me for dinner the entertainment of the night being the ladies shooting me with their toy bows and arrows

    depending on your perspective sadly / happily tonight my wife has a date i am to be babied and put to bed early.

    it takes all sorts to make a valentine

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    1. That is true. I am not into everything you are, but I like hearing your stories! The arrow-shooting sounds fun!

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  2. Looks like the penis was painted in.

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    1. Well they're painted in on the cupid artworks too. ;-)

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  3. So many women seeing a cock like that would want to play with it until it's standing at attention. then seeing how many valentine orgasms she can have
    archedone

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    1. Probably. Thankfully my Rosa is not like that. She tells me she gets teased by her friends all the time for seeming so straight-laced just because she shows little interest in what the average woman gravitates towards. Irony huh?

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    2. @Archedone: Really???!!!

      Let me explain this to you very S-L-O-W-L-Y. You are a man, and, like most (not all) men, you have the mistaken idea that women are as focused on the penis as their male counterparts. You couldn't be more wrong! I'm sorry to burst your bubble, however, the world doesn't revolve around your (the general your) penis.

      It's much easier and better to have him use a vibrator, dildo, or even his tongue to reach orgasm. Plenty of men have no idea how to use their penis anyway.

      Most of my female friends and acquaintances would rather give tease and denial or torture (like clips) to a penis.

      /end sermon

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    3. Merry: ;-) Oh I don't know. Whenever I see those porn videos, the ladies just scramble to get at a large penis. Are you telling me that doesn't happen? LOL

      Actually, and to bring balance to this, I think there are all kinds. I've met Rosa's ex-schoolmates and current adult friends from Peru. And they really do go crazy over big penis pictures. You would not believe the conversation had with one of them who wanted to know if I could hook her up with a well-hung Black male. So while people like you, your friends, and Rosa are on one side of this, there seem to be others, (outside of porn) who do follow along with archedone's commentary as well.

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    4. Ah! Let's discuss the (mythic) BBC, or big cock in general. Yes, it's fascinating for many women. Just like a unicorn. I've ridden more than my share of men who were very well endowed (10+") and many of them have complained that few women could handle the whole amount. It's like the dog who catches the car (Now what?)

      As a female Dominant/Mistress, I encounter men who think we all want their "little man" and it's pathetic. So yeah, I'm grumbly and opinionated.

      Oh, and lest anyone should bring up my comment about your penis a few days ago, I will say that the picture was artistic and not "in your face" and I can appreciate a picture of a well-taken-care-of penis as much as the next person. Doesn't mean I want to fuck it or suck it.

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    5. Merry I believe that comment was aimed at me. Not to blow your bubble but I love giving oral to my wife as much as she desires and we do have our share of vibrators when she desires them too. But unless a lady is lesbian she would love to play with a hard cock even if it's just teasing him.
      archedone

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    6. Merry: As someone who has been in this game for a long time, and one who has tried in the past especially, to get reluctant but interested women to feel comfortable discussing BDSM, etc. and how to indulge while staying relatively safe from jerks and predators, I have heard so many penis-flaunting horror stories that, even as a guy, I know what you're talking about.

      One of the things I think you can see that I've tried to do here on Collected Submissions, is to give both men and women a safe place to be themselves safely ..... but without resorting to overly coddling methods. And I think the number of females who post here are a testament to the fact that both can be done.

      All that said, I again have to say there is definitely a middle ground here. On one hand there definitely ARE way too many desperate guys out there all too eager to flash a penis like a fisherman dangling a worm.....in order to land a female play-partner. And from the stories I've heard and seen with my own eyes on how when a female shows up on any site, forum, blog, dating site, etc. that seems even mildly interested in kink, they are overwhelmed by unwanted advances, all too often accompanied by the laughably obligatory 'dick-pic'.

      It's no wonder you have a raw spot on this issue. But on the other hand, like I said, I have seen women in real life get school-girl giddy over the right penis on some sexy guy. (Ever see how some of the horny matrons at some party with a male stripper behave?) So, there are some very visible females out there who are not doing your cause any favors.

      And then there are guys who are trying to have fun, but have no illusions about their penile charms. I have displayed myself on this blog often, but I can't think of any instance where it was a prideful act. Usually those pics of mine are tongue-in-cheek self-deprecating attempts at levity.....and I suppose that is something you were talking about being more refreshing than "hey ladies, look what I got! Get in line, because there's plenty of me to go around"-type displays by guys who may very well think their member must be as extra-special to women as it is to them. ;-)

      I may very well do a post on this. It's a topic I don't think I've done.

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    7. Archedone: I get where you're coming from, but think you might be underestimating how many straight women are not penis-oriented. Rosa is a middle-of-the-road person on this and even at her most eager, it's only with me. When movies show guys' fronts (and we do not watch porn ...hard or soft....because neither of us like it) she winces and shrugs it off. Given your last line, if she was confronted by even the most magnificent penis on the handsomest guy .....who was just some dancer/stripper or whatever, she definitely would not want to tease it in any capacity and would probably leave the room. And to your point, there would indeed be plenty of her friends who would welcome her exit and think..."good, more for me". LOL

      My point to you is the same as my point to Merry. Each of you, ...like the six blind people who come to see the elephant in that famous poem.... are not wholly right, nor wholly wrong. And I think each of you is sincerely reacting according to your experience. I just think there's a lot more variety out there.

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    8. KDPierre: I'm glad you "get" it. Your maturity level is what keeps me returning.

      A penis (any penis really) doesn't hold my interest very long. Now, give me a man who tickles my brain, who is intelligent, can carry a conversation, who can make me think, and inspire my imagination... It's his penis that I want and desire.

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    9. Merry: Thanks for the maturity compliment. I know plenty of people who think of me more as a "big kid" though. LOL.

      As for your ideal guy? He could possibly be another "mythic unicorn"? (BTW, very phallic choice with a unicorn, don't you think?) ;-)

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    10. Well, I spent my single twenties often baffled about what females actually found romantically and sexually appealing in a male, as opposed to what they supposedly did. I'm suspicious that many young women who gave the impression of being 'above' directly erotic physical attraction were misrepresenting their feelings, because that was the popular culture image of enlightened femininity at the time.

      In my early thirties, I was simply fortunate enough to find myself interacting with a pretty woman, my current wife, who made it clear that she was attracted to both my intellect and my physical body.

      That was rather refreshing, because at least superficially most women of my age group had displayed little clearly sexual attraction to young men--if they'd been excited by something as overtly erotic as a big-time 'package,' it wasn't anything they had shown publicly.

      Then again, I was never around them if/when there was a male stripper performing, nor when they were engaging in 'girl talk' among themselves... --C.K.

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    11. CK: It is interesting to see how societal movements and attitudes work their way into things like this.

      My background is not the same as yours and I was getting definite reactions from women, enlightened or not, appreciating the physical. But your story doesn't surprise me. There are all kinds out there.

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    12. Well, at that time period (mid-1970s to early '80s) the near-same-age young women I associated with were primarily college students or later recent college graduates, and the dominant image of womanhood among that group was primarily one of being attracted to non-physical qualities in a man. (As I mentioned before, what they stated during their private 'girl talk' likely didn't necessarily adhere to those outwardly-accepted social values.)

      I did have a female cousin around my age whom I was fairly close to emotionally back then, she did sometimes indicate feeling a physical attraction to guys she found to be romantically and sexually appealing to her. (She seemed to like muscularly toned, athletic young men, especially those with tight butts, at that time--hardly unusual for women then or now, I'm figuring--however she ended up marrying a former college classmate of hers, one who had psychological qualities she related to yet didn't seem more than average in terms of physical attractiveness.)

      Still, my cousin never made any references to any appeal of primary male sexual organs, at least not in her conversations with me.

      Of course, if I'd had more regular and extended contacts with working-class young ladies, then who knows what might have happened? Still, I was shy and uncertain with females who were romantic possibilities, so I quite likely missed some 'signals' from a few of them...--C.K.

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    13. CK: Yes, as with most things, the broader one's experience, the more variety one is usually exposed to. It simply does "take all kinds". Rosa is more like you described. After all I'm not young, well-hung, or wealthy......but she chose me over others who pursued her for her physical charms.

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